Happy October! I hope you are enjoying the new month so far. I am certainly loving this slightly cooler weather and all things pumpkin spice and seeing leaves just starting to turn colors. Autumn never ceases to give me a sense of wonder and amazement. Why do pumpkin spice things taste so yummy and how leaves know exactly when to change and how to change colors? Why is the sound of crunching leaves so satisfying? Yes, I certainly adore the simplest things in life.
I have always preferred savoring the tiny things in life rather than splurging tons of money, time, and effort into creating a spectacular event to enjoy. For me, I much rather cook a meal at home and get to eat it in my pajamas than go out to a fancy five-star restaurant. I love evening walks around my neighborhood just a bit more than going to concerts or the big events. I feel most comfortable in a plain t-shirt, an old pair of jeans, and my cowboy boots. I joke that I pretty much wear the same thing everyday just in a different color or pattern. I am fine with absolutely no makeup on and my hair is usually pulled into a very messy bun. I tried to learn how to do adorable hairstyles on Youtube, but it turns out hair is not one of my talents. How did I manage to create huge knots in my hair and the lady in the video ended up with gorgeous and intricate hair? :)
If you're like me, don't think there's anything wrong with you or that you are alone. I promise you that you are not as weird or odd as you think you are. It's okay to be a simpler girl. Don't try to force yourself to do things differently just because you see other people doing so. We cannot all act or look like each other. That is so boring and unoriginal and we need to start celebrating individuality more. You are so special and awesome just the way you are. The best thing you can do is to be true to yourself and always make sure you are completely comfortable in your own skin. By doing so, you'll build so much self-confidence, and others will take notice. Maybe you will start your own trend. You never know!
Take care of yourselves and enjoy celebrating your own uniqueness.
XOXO
Chloe
02 October, 2017
27 September, 2017
For The Girl Who Feels Like Other Girls Don't "Get" You
Hello again, everyone!
I hope your week has been great so far.
This is a very vulnerable post for me to write, but it's been weighing quite heavy on my heart, and I just feel like I am supposed to write about this. I have always struggled with believing other girls like me and can relate to me. I love getting to know people and hearing about their stories, but it's so hard to believe other girls actually want to be my friend. I know I am not the only person who feels insecure about herself and I just want to encourage you.
I've always joked that I am a bit of a lone wolf. I don't need a big group of people to feel good about myself. I like being independent and am completely comfortable by myself. However, as human beings, we were created for community and fellowship. We need strong relationships in order to grow to become the best versions of ourselves possible. My small group of close friends have taught me so many life lessons. We have eaten together, laughed together, cried together, and celebrated milestones together. I just could not imagine life without them. While I do enjoy being alone too, I need my friends just as much. Don't believe the lie that no one will ever understand you and that it's better to be a lone wolf. Sometimes it just takes time to find the right people. Not every single person will be your best friend and that's okay too.
Part of finding a great group of friends is to be a good friend. Who wants to be friends with someone who is selfish, negative, and/or unreliable? Honesty, loyalty, and generosity go a very long way. All of us (myself definitely included) need to be mindful of the energy we put out. Are we always complaining about something? Do we call/text back on time? Do we ask about how our friends' days/lives are going before sharing anything about ourselves? Being a good friend matters. No one wants to hang out with someone they feel they can't trust.
True friends want to know about how your life is going. Sometimes they ask difficult and/or personal questions. It is so important we learn how to be vulnerable and honest. True friends don't ask those types of questions to offend you or criticize you. They ask those questions because they want to cultivate a deeper relationship with you. I understand some of us are more reserved and private than others, but once you find your close knit group of friends, it is important to trust them by letting them into your life. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but the end result of having a group of people who continually encourages you, loves you, and cares about you is always worth it.
And last but certainly not least: Your worth should never ever be defined by the number of likes or followers you have. Those things are nice, but they are not a reliable indicator of friendship. Real friends do a lot more than pushing a "like" button. Real friends are just as active (if not more) in person than social media/screens. It may take time to find those people, but they are definitely out there and getting to know them always leads to a richer and fuller life.
We were created for fellowship. We are called to be good friends to others. We are worthy of love.
XOXO
Chloe
I hope your week has been great so far.
This is a very vulnerable post for me to write, but it's been weighing quite heavy on my heart, and I just feel like I am supposed to write about this. I have always struggled with believing other girls like me and can relate to me. I love getting to know people and hearing about their stories, but it's so hard to believe other girls actually want to be my friend. I know I am not the only person who feels insecure about herself and I just want to encourage you.
I've always joked that I am a bit of a lone wolf. I don't need a big group of people to feel good about myself. I like being independent and am completely comfortable by myself. However, as human beings, we were created for community and fellowship. We need strong relationships in order to grow to become the best versions of ourselves possible. My small group of close friends have taught me so many life lessons. We have eaten together, laughed together, cried together, and celebrated milestones together. I just could not imagine life without them. While I do enjoy being alone too, I need my friends just as much. Don't believe the lie that no one will ever understand you and that it's better to be a lone wolf. Sometimes it just takes time to find the right people. Not every single person will be your best friend and that's okay too.
Part of finding a great group of friends is to be a good friend. Who wants to be friends with someone who is selfish, negative, and/or unreliable? Honesty, loyalty, and generosity go a very long way. All of us (myself definitely included) need to be mindful of the energy we put out. Are we always complaining about something? Do we call/text back on time? Do we ask about how our friends' days/lives are going before sharing anything about ourselves? Being a good friend matters. No one wants to hang out with someone they feel they can't trust.
True friends want to know about how your life is going. Sometimes they ask difficult and/or personal questions. It is so important we learn how to be vulnerable and honest. True friends don't ask those types of questions to offend you or criticize you. They ask those questions because they want to cultivate a deeper relationship with you. I understand some of us are more reserved and private than others, but once you find your close knit group of friends, it is important to trust them by letting them into your life. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but the end result of having a group of people who continually encourages you, loves you, and cares about you is always worth it.
And last but certainly not least: Your worth should never ever be defined by the number of likes or followers you have. Those things are nice, but they are not a reliable indicator of friendship. Real friends do a lot more than pushing a "like" button. Real friends are just as active (if not more) in person than social media/screens. It may take time to find those people, but they are definitely out there and getting to know them always leads to a richer and fuller life.
We were created for fellowship. We are called to be good friends to others. We are worthy of love.
XOXO
Chloe
06 September, 2017
Help Hurricane Harvey Victims/My Poshmark Closet
Hello everyone!
I hope your Labor Day weekend was wonderful and fun. I certainly enjoyed mine, but my heart still hurts for all those affected by Hurricane Harvey. I can't help but to think about how blessed I am to have a place to live with my family safe and sound. My heart breaks for all those who have lost family, friends, homes, and the possessions they've worked so hard to get. I send all my love and prayers to those whose lives are turned upside down.
In order to do my best to help those affected by Hurricane Harvey, I am selling some things on Poshmark and donating 100% of my earnings to sending relief. My Poshmark closet name is cmpark95. Please feel free to check it out! All my prices are negotiable and I'm always more than happy to answer any questions you have.
Poshmark is great because you get 2-day shipping and you will not pay until you receive your order. It is very safe and easy to use.
I'm just doing whatever I can to help send hope and relief. I just want people to know we cannot give up on taking care of each other and being sources of light and encouragement. Texas, you are not alone! You are very loved and cared about and I hope my donations from Poshmark help you realize that you are supported.
Come on and spend some time in my closet. We can all help send relief!
Poshmark username/closet: cmpark95
XOXO
Chloe
I hope your Labor Day weekend was wonderful and fun. I certainly enjoyed mine, but my heart still hurts for all those affected by Hurricane Harvey. I can't help but to think about how blessed I am to have a place to live with my family safe and sound. My heart breaks for all those who have lost family, friends, homes, and the possessions they've worked so hard to get. I send all my love and prayers to those whose lives are turned upside down.
In order to do my best to help those affected by Hurricane Harvey, I am selling some things on Poshmark and donating 100% of my earnings to sending relief. My Poshmark closet name is cmpark95. Please feel free to check it out! All my prices are negotiable and I'm always more than happy to answer any questions you have.
Poshmark is great because you get 2-day shipping and you will not pay until you receive your order. It is very safe and easy to use.
I'm just doing whatever I can to help send hope and relief. I just want people to know we cannot give up on taking care of each other and being sources of light and encouragement. Texas, you are not alone! You are very loved and cared about and I hope my donations from Poshmark help you realize that you are supported.
Come on and spend some time in my closet. We can all help send relief!
Poshmark username/closet: cmpark95
XOXO
Chloe
18 July, 2017
Advice for Incoming Freshmen
Hello again, everyone!
I hope you are all enjoying your summer. This is a post specifically for my readers who are incoming college freshmen. It is still surreal to me that I am now done with college and am now living the adult life. I will always have fond memories of my college days and the past four years have been so incredible. If your nervous or scared about starting your new adventure, please don't be, It is an exciting and wonderful time, and I want to encourage you to cherish every second of it, even if you are feeling intimidated. I get it, change is not always easy. We all love comfort and routines. While it can be difficult, it is so worth it. Here is a list of my best advice for you in regards to social life and academic life:
Social/Making new friends:
1.) Get plugged in right away.
Most universities will host an extracurriculars fair during the first couple weeks of school. Attend them and start talking with people. Find a sports team, club or organization that interests you, and go for it! Even if you feel awkward or shy, it is so worth it. I've met so many great people by attending these fairs and they have helped me feel more connected to my school and I've had a ton of fun.
2.) Keep you dorm room door open.
Someone shared this piece of wisdom with me right before I arrived on campus, and I am so thankful they did. I cannot tell you how many people I've became good friends with just by popping in to their open room and saying hello, or vice versa. Sometimes it's easy to want privacy or hide away when feeling nervous, shy, or downright scared, but resist the urge and keep your door open. People will stop by and introduce themselves. And if you see an open door, don't hesitate to stop by and get to know some folks.
3.) Get to know your RA (resident assistant) for your dorm's floor.
RAs are super helpful and no, they don't bite. They can help answer questions about school, living on campus, and they are the first people to go to for any issues regarding housing. My RAs were all very friendly and made a huge effort to know all their residents, create fun get-to-know-you/ice breaker events, and some of them became wonderful friends. They will help you settle in and get acclimated and they might even give you some fun treats and surprises every once in a while.
Academics:
4.) Learn to love your syllabus.
Most professors will not remind you of due dates because they include all the important dates and assignments on their syllabus. It is your job to save that packet in a safe place, and record all the dates in your agenda or planner. I always highlighted the dates in my syllabus, and then made sure to write them down in my agenda ASAP. I never forgot a single assignment or turned anything in late. (Late penalties hurt your grade A LOT)
5.) Find a tutoring/study group.
Group tutoring/studying is a great way to review the info you learned in class, ask questions, and stay motivated. All my tutors were super helpful, patient, and constantly encouraged me to put forth my very best work. They can give you tips for how to become more effective at studying, and share some test-taking strategies that really work. These sessions are wonderful because everyone who attends wants to be there and get better, and in my experiences, we all motivated one another to do well in school.
6.) Create and stick to a study schedule. College is busy and hectic. I was a student-athlete, volunteered as a copyeditor, and played intramural volleyball, and did my best to maintain a social life with friends. The only way I was able to be successful was by creating a study schedule each semester and sticking to it no matter what. I made sure to dedicate time for completing homework, studying for quizzes and exams, and for writing papers each day. Even if I got tired or felt like motivation was slipping away, I found ways to remind myself to sit down and hit the books. Off you fail to do this, it will show in your performance. Don't get lazy. Success relies on self-discipline.
That's all for now. Remember to savor every minute of this fun and exciting time. You are going to do so well and I'm excited for all of you. Feel free to comment with more advice and./or questions. I absolutely love doing posts like this. Enjoy!
XOXO
Chloe
I hope you are all enjoying your summer. This is a post specifically for my readers who are incoming college freshmen. It is still surreal to me that I am now done with college and am now living the adult life. I will always have fond memories of my college days and the past four years have been so incredible. If your nervous or scared about starting your new adventure, please don't be, It is an exciting and wonderful time, and I want to encourage you to cherish every second of it, even if you are feeling intimidated. I get it, change is not always easy. We all love comfort and routines. While it can be difficult, it is so worth it. Here is a list of my best advice for you in regards to social life and academic life:
Social/Making new friends:
1.) Get plugged in right away.
Most universities will host an extracurriculars fair during the first couple weeks of school. Attend them and start talking with people. Find a sports team, club or organization that interests you, and go for it! Even if you feel awkward or shy, it is so worth it. I've met so many great people by attending these fairs and they have helped me feel more connected to my school and I've had a ton of fun.
2.) Keep you dorm room door open.
Someone shared this piece of wisdom with me right before I arrived on campus, and I am so thankful they did. I cannot tell you how many people I've became good friends with just by popping in to their open room and saying hello, or vice versa. Sometimes it's easy to want privacy or hide away when feeling nervous, shy, or downright scared, but resist the urge and keep your door open. People will stop by and introduce themselves. And if you see an open door, don't hesitate to stop by and get to know some folks.
3.) Get to know your RA (resident assistant) for your dorm's floor.
RAs are super helpful and no, they don't bite. They can help answer questions about school, living on campus, and they are the first people to go to for any issues regarding housing. My RAs were all very friendly and made a huge effort to know all their residents, create fun get-to-know-you/ice breaker events, and some of them became wonderful friends. They will help you settle in and get acclimated and they might even give you some fun treats and surprises every once in a while.
Academics:
4.) Learn to love your syllabus.
Most professors will not remind you of due dates because they include all the important dates and assignments on their syllabus. It is your job to save that packet in a safe place, and record all the dates in your agenda or planner. I always highlighted the dates in my syllabus, and then made sure to write them down in my agenda ASAP. I never forgot a single assignment or turned anything in late. (Late penalties hurt your grade A LOT)
5.) Find a tutoring/study group.
Group tutoring/studying is a great way to review the info you learned in class, ask questions, and stay motivated. All my tutors were super helpful, patient, and constantly encouraged me to put forth my very best work. They can give you tips for how to become more effective at studying, and share some test-taking strategies that really work. These sessions are wonderful because everyone who attends wants to be there and get better, and in my experiences, we all motivated one another to do well in school.
6.) Create and stick to a study schedule. College is busy and hectic. I was a student-athlete, volunteered as a copyeditor, and played intramural volleyball, and did my best to maintain a social life with friends. The only way I was able to be successful was by creating a study schedule each semester and sticking to it no matter what. I made sure to dedicate time for completing homework, studying for quizzes and exams, and for writing papers each day. Even if I got tired or felt like motivation was slipping away, I found ways to remind myself to sit down and hit the books. Off you fail to do this, it will show in your performance. Don't get lazy. Success relies on self-discipline.
That's all for now. Remember to savor every minute of this fun and exciting time. You are going to do so well and I'm excited for all of you. Feel free to comment with more advice and./or questions. I absolutely love doing posts like this. Enjoy!
XOXO
Chloe
07 July, 2017
Bye-Bye Boredom!
Hi there, everyone!
I hope your summer is off to a great start. I really love this time of year. Sunshine and warm weather and longer days make for a lovely combo. It's funny how many people my age say they're always bored. It's weird hearing them say "I just can't wait for summer" all school year, but as soon as summer finally comes, their tunes change and they begin to say "I'm so bored. There's nothing to do." If you find yourself saying these things, I'm here to help you out. I want you to enjoy as much of the season as possible and have a lot of fun. Here's a list of my favorite activities:
1.) Go for a walk, bike ride, jog, etc.
Whatever it is, get outside and enjoy the fresh air and sun. Exercise is not only good for your body, but also your mind. We all need fresh air. Every evening, I take a walk around my neighborhood and admire my neighbors' pretty flowers/landscaping, the cute ducks in the ponds, and it's always nice to see your neighbors and say hello.
2.) Volunteer
Whether you volunteer to help clean up parks, care for the animals in your local shelter, or help a neighbor with their house/garden/pets while they're on vacation, you will feel great about yourself and other people will thank you. The most joy comes from helping others with a cheerful attitude. I've volunteered to help my neighbor with her garden while she's away, and seeing how happy she is, makes me happy as well. She's even dropped off some of her crops as a way to say thanks. Caring for something or somebody other than yourself is the ultimate way to feel satisfied.
3.) Try cooking and/or baking.
I'll admit that I am not the best cook. I do love baking, and have been baking a lot recently. I'm learning to be a better cook as well and I'm having a ton of fun in the process. I use websites like epicurious.com, and food.com as well as Pinterest to find easy recipes I can try. I love learning new things and working with my hands, so it's been a great way for me to stay entertained and learn a little bit each time I cook and bake.
4.) Visit a museum
I have a special place in my heart for museums. Call me a nerd, but I find a lot of them fascinating because I love history and learning. There's so much I still don't know about, and if I keep my mind curious, then it is really hard for me to be bored.
5.) Spend time at your local library.
I am so grateful that my house is only a couple of minutes away from the library. It's a great place to wander around and get lost in amazing literature. Even if you don't like reading now, I encourage you to just go to the library, pick up a book that looks interesting to you, and start reading. Reading for fun is a habit that is essential. Reading teaches you and helps you practice things like critical thinking, creativity, empathy, and so much more. If you don't have a library card, it is super easy to get one and you'll soon find yourself constantly checking out great books.
Well, that's all for now. Go out there and have some fun! Happy summer adventures!
XOXO
Chloe
I hope your summer is off to a great start. I really love this time of year. Sunshine and warm weather and longer days make for a lovely combo. It's funny how many people my age say they're always bored. It's weird hearing them say "I just can't wait for summer" all school year, but as soon as summer finally comes, their tunes change and they begin to say "I'm so bored. There's nothing to do." If you find yourself saying these things, I'm here to help you out. I want you to enjoy as much of the season as possible and have a lot of fun. Here's a list of my favorite activities:
1.) Go for a walk, bike ride, jog, etc.
Whatever it is, get outside and enjoy the fresh air and sun. Exercise is not only good for your body, but also your mind. We all need fresh air. Every evening, I take a walk around my neighborhood and admire my neighbors' pretty flowers/landscaping, the cute ducks in the ponds, and it's always nice to see your neighbors and say hello.
2.) Volunteer
Whether you volunteer to help clean up parks, care for the animals in your local shelter, or help a neighbor with their house/garden/pets while they're on vacation, you will feel great about yourself and other people will thank you. The most joy comes from helping others with a cheerful attitude. I've volunteered to help my neighbor with her garden while she's away, and seeing how happy she is, makes me happy as well. She's even dropped off some of her crops as a way to say thanks. Caring for something or somebody other than yourself is the ultimate way to feel satisfied.
3.) Try cooking and/or baking.
I'll admit that I am not the best cook. I do love baking, and have been baking a lot recently. I'm learning to be a better cook as well and I'm having a ton of fun in the process. I use websites like epicurious.com, and food.com as well as Pinterest to find easy recipes I can try. I love learning new things and working with my hands, so it's been a great way for me to stay entertained and learn a little bit each time I cook and bake.
4.) Visit a museum
I have a special place in my heart for museums. Call me a nerd, but I find a lot of them fascinating because I love history and learning. There's so much I still don't know about, and if I keep my mind curious, then it is really hard for me to be bored.
5.) Spend time at your local library.
I am so grateful that my house is only a couple of minutes away from the library. It's a great place to wander around and get lost in amazing literature. Even if you don't like reading now, I encourage you to just go to the library, pick up a book that looks interesting to you, and start reading. Reading for fun is a habit that is essential. Reading teaches you and helps you practice things like critical thinking, creativity, empathy, and so much more. If you don't have a library card, it is super easy to get one and you'll soon find yourself constantly checking out great books.
Well, that's all for now. Go out there and have some fun! Happy summer adventures!
XOXO
Chloe
27 June, 2017
Thank You!
Hello once again, everyone!
Wow! The past month has been a bit crazy for me to say the least. The biggest news/update?
I HAVE OFFICIALLY GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE! YAY!
I still can't believe four years have flown by and I am now a very proud and excited English/Creative writing major! Writing has always been a huge passion for me, and the fact that I had the honor and privilege to dedicate four incredibly fun years to learning more about words and great literature, is mind-blowing. I feel so blessed and could not be more thankful for the wonderful team of professors, mentors, and fellow writers who have taught me so much, and inspire me to become not only a better writer, but also a better individual. My heart is overflowing with love, gratitude, and joy for those special people.
The future is bright and I am excited to see how this next chapter of my story plays out. I have to admit I don't always embrace surprises. I like to know exactly what will happen, when it will happen, and how it will happen. But I also know that life cannot always work that way. Patience is a virtue I work on each day.
I'm also grateful for this blog and for all my readers. Whether this is the very first post you've read or you've been reading my posts for awhile now, thank you for stopping by! I really do appreciate it and I wish I could thank each and every one of you in person. This has been the perfect place for me to practice writing and also enjoy many other talented people's blogs as well. This community is so awesome!
That's all for now! I hope your day is filled with love and light.
XOXO
Chloe
Wow! The past month has been a bit crazy for me to say the least. The biggest news/update?
I HAVE OFFICIALLY GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE! YAY!
I still can't believe four years have flown by and I am now a very proud and excited English/Creative writing major! Writing has always been a huge passion for me, and the fact that I had the honor and privilege to dedicate four incredibly fun years to learning more about words and great literature, is mind-blowing. I feel so blessed and could not be more thankful for the wonderful team of professors, mentors, and fellow writers who have taught me so much, and inspire me to become not only a better writer, but also a better individual. My heart is overflowing with love, gratitude, and joy for those special people.
The future is bright and I am excited to see how this next chapter of my story plays out. I have to admit I don't always embrace surprises. I like to know exactly what will happen, when it will happen, and how it will happen. But I also know that life cannot always work that way. Patience is a virtue I work on each day.
I'm also grateful for this blog and for all my readers. Whether this is the very first post you've read or you've been reading my posts for awhile now, thank you for stopping by! I really do appreciate it and I wish I could thank each and every one of you in person. This has been the perfect place for me to practice writing and also enjoy many other talented people's blogs as well. This community is so awesome!
That's all for now! I hope your day is filled with love and light.
XOXO
Chloe
21 April, 2017
Why Major in English?
Hello, lovelies!
So I graduate from college in 22 days! Ahhhhhhh! As some of you may know, I am graduating with a B.A. in English with a concentration in creative writing. A lot of people have asked me what I want to do with my degree, but even more people ask why I believe an English degree is useful for the real world. Here are some of my reasons:
1.) An English (or any other humanities/liberal arts) degree teaches you how to think. I am able to read large chunks of info, summarize and synthesize it, and then present it to others in a way they can understand quickly and easily. We are professional researchers and excel at analyzing data. So many business need people who can do high quality, in-depth research and not just Google and wikipedia! It teaches you how to read critically and to formulate ideas on how to solve problems and challenges.
2.) English majors have a very wide worldview. In literature, we are exposed to topics such as politics, feminism, Marxism/capitalism/socialism, business and economy, philosophy, racism, religion, morality/ethics, gender and sexuality, and so much more. It's not to say we are experts at all of these, but we have a very diverse pool of information to incorporate into any career field. A wide worldview teaches you how to have empathy and understanding towards people or ideas that are different than you. If you can relate well to others and find ways to work together, it leads to amazing interpersonal skills with your boss and coworkers/colleagues.
3.) An English degree teaches you how to be a strong communicator in writing and orally. It's not to say all of us love public speaking and presenting, but we are naturally very good at it since it's required in almost all English classes. We know how to organize and plan an effective visual and oral presentation. This is a crucial skill to have whether you are working in law, business, communication/media, and many other disciplines
In short, studying liberal arts makes you able to adapt quickly and easily to any situation. It teaches you to use your brain and formulate new ideas, and transforms you into an excellent communicator and employee. The liberal arts will give you an extremely well-rounded education that can be applied to just about any career field. I promise, it is NOT useless.
XOXO
Chloe
So I graduate from college in 22 days! Ahhhhhhh! As some of you may know, I am graduating with a B.A. in English with a concentration in creative writing. A lot of people have asked me what I want to do with my degree, but even more people ask why I believe an English degree is useful for the real world. Here are some of my reasons:
1.) An English (or any other humanities/liberal arts) degree teaches you how to think. I am able to read large chunks of info, summarize and synthesize it, and then present it to others in a way they can understand quickly and easily. We are professional researchers and excel at analyzing data. So many business need people who can do high quality, in-depth research and not just Google and wikipedia! It teaches you how to read critically and to formulate ideas on how to solve problems and challenges.
2.) English majors have a very wide worldview. In literature, we are exposed to topics such as politics, feminism, Marxism/capitalism/socialism, business and economy, philosophy, racism, religion, morality/ethics, gender and sexuality, and so much more. It's not to say we are experts at all of these, but we have a very diverse pool of information to incorporate into any career field. A wide worldview teaches you how to have empathy and understanding towards people or ideas that are different than you. If you can relate well to others and find ways to work together, it leads to amazing interpersonal skills with your boss and coworkers/colleagues.
3.) An English degree teaches you how to be a strong communicator in writing and orally. It's not to say all of us love public speaking and presenting, but we are naturally very good at it since it's required in almost all English classes. We know how to organize and plan an effective visual and oral presentation. This is a crucial skill to have whether you are working in law, business, communication/media, and many other disciplines
In short, studying liberal arts makes you able to adapt quickly and easily to any situation. It teaches you to use your brain and formulate new ideas, and transforms you into an excellent communicator and employee. The liberal arts will give you an extremely well-rounded education that can be applied to just about any career field. I promise, it is NOT useless.
XOXO
Chloe
12 April, 2017
Don't Give Up!
Hello again, everyone!
I cannot believe it's already April! I have less than 5 weeks left of college and then it's off to the real world. It's been a pretty hectic time for me as I'm trying my best to wrap up last projects, papers, and study for exams. For me, and many other graduating seniors, it's so easy to want to give up. It's as our brains are saying, "You've already word had enough. You can slack off a bit." BUT... Do NOT fall for that trap. It may seem like such an easy and nice way to relax after working so hard, but I know for a fact that it will hurt your prestige. While it may seem like your school grades will not affect your likelihood of scoring that ideal job, it will. Do you really want to be known as the person who used to work hard, but then fell off on their efforts? Or do would you rather be known as someone who is successful, determined, and responsible? I know for a fact, employers and companies really want responsible, determined and successful individuals working for them. If you start off well, but then soon slack off just because you think you feel too tired, or the assignment is too difficult, or you're just bored, then there's no real way a good employer is going to want to hire you and/or renew your contract/work agreement. You alone are ultimately responsible for your own reputation. Invest time and energy into always doing things the right way and on-time and you'll improve your chances of succeeding in both your professional and personal life. You don't have to be flawless, but you do have to commit to doing the very best that you can possibly do.
Fellow graduating seniors, we do have a lot to be proud of. Many of us have committed ourselves to a legacy of excellence. It is not easy to push ourselves to stay on top of our game, but the results will be worth the work. Hard work always pays off, even if it doesn't happen immediately. Remember that saying "good things come to those who wait"? So, I'd like to encourage you to stay patient and in the meantime continue to commit to excellence and stay motivated and enthusiastic. If we've worked as hard as we can, then we're in a good place. Don't give up on working hard and staying driven. Success will never come to those who are apathetic, negative, and/or lazy. You are capable of being amazing.
Have a wonderful week and if you celebrate Easter, then happy early Easter. I wish you a safe, healthy, and fun time with family and friends.
XOXO
Chloe
I cannot believe it's already April! I have less than 5 weeks left of college and then it's off to the real world. It's been a pretty hectic time for me as I'm trying my best to wrap up last projects, papers, and study for exams. For me, and many other graduating seniors, it's so easy to want to give up. It's as our brains are saying, "You've already word had enough. You can slack off a bit." BUT... Do NOT fall for that trap. It may seem like such an easy and nice way to relax after working so hard, but I know for a fact that it will hurt your prestige. While it may seem like your school grades will not affect your likelihood of scoring that ideal job, it will. Do you really want to be known as the person who used to work hard, but then fell off on their efforts? Or do would you rather be known as someone who is successful, determined, and responsible? I know for a fact, employers and companies really want responsible, determined and successful individuals working for them. If you start off well, but then soon slack off just because you think you feel too tired, or the assignment is too difficult, or you're just bored, then there's no real way a good employer is going to want to hire you and/or renew your contract/work agreement. You alone are ultimately responsible for your own reputation. Invest time and energy into always doing things the right way and on-time and you'll improve your chances of succeeding in both your professional and personal life. You don't have to be flawless, but you do have to commit to doing the very best that you can possibly do.
Fellow graduating seniors, we do have a lot to be proud of. Many of us have committed ourselves to a legacy of excellence. It is not easy to push ourselves to stay on top of our game, but the results will be worth the work. Hard work always pays off, even if it doesn't happen immediately. Remember that saying "good things come to those who wait"? So, I'd like to encourage you to stay patient and in the meantime continue to commit to excellence and stay motivated and enthusiastic. If we've worked as hard as we can, then we're in a good place. Don't give up on working hard and staying driven. Success will never come to those who are apathetic, negative, and/or lazy. You are capable of being amazing.
Have a wonderful week and if you celebrate Easter, then happy early Easter. I wish you a safe, healthy, and fun time with family and friends.
XOXO
Chloe
22 March, 2017
The Joy In Being Told "No"
So, I'm currently in the exciting and slightly nerve-wrecking process of applying for full-time jobs in or near Sacramento. College has been lots of fun and I'm so grateful for all the neat opportunities I've been given over the past four years. Now, I feel ready to face the real world of adult life. This next chapter will be difficult and new, but I'm sure I'll learn many more valuable life lessons and meet awesome people in the process.
Today I got an email from one of the first places I applied to. It was for an entry-level position at a law firm. They said they would be willing to train college grads and teach them. Awesome! They offered an interview time and date to me for next week. Unfortunately, going to school in Chicago make such short notice travel very difficult. I emailed them to tell them I would not be able to do an in-person interview, but would be more than happy to do a phone interview first, then schedule an in-person interview later if they still thought I was a good fit. I asked them how soon they wanted to fill the position. It turns out they need someone immediately and at this time, I am not an ideal fit.
I completely understand that I am not currently the best fit and I'm not really disappointed at all right now. Here's how I look at it: Some at this firm took the time to read my resume and consider me. It means so much to me that someone would actually consider hiring me even though I'm only 22 years old and I don't have too much life experience or amazing skills and talents. I mean, it's an honor just to be given a chance to be taken seriously as a professional working adult.
This particular job door isn't permanently closed. There's always a slim chance that they might still consider me if they can't fill the position by the time May rolls around. I told them I'd still love to work with them if that was ever the case. And, I also got to make a new contact in the legal services field. Good ol' networking... I didn't lose anything today. If anything, I gained something. Being told no, is sometimes more like being told yes. I was shown that YES, I can get a job. Today just wasn't the right timing. BUT it will happen at another time. YES, I am qualified enough. YES, really important people do in fact read my resumes.
At this moment, I realize there are still so many other opportunities for me. There's a reason I've applied to so many places. I'm open-mined and ready to consider alternatives and make the very best out of anything. I know the important thing to remember is to never lose hope. I will get a job soon enough and I'll be able to grow even more. In the meantime, all I can do is work as hard as I can and never give up. It will pay off.
XOXO
Chloe
Today I got an email from one of the first places I applied to. It was for an entry-level position at a law firm. They said they would be willing to train college grads and teach them. Awesome! They offered an interview time and date to me for next week. Unfortunately, going to school in Chicago make such short notice travel very difficult. I emailed them to tell them I would not be able to do an in-person interview, but would be more than happy to do a phone interview first, then schedule an in-person interview later if they still thought I was a good fit. I asked them how soon they wanted to fill the position. It turns out they need someone immediately and at this time, I am not an ideal fit.
I completely understand that I am not currently the best fit and I'm not really disappointed at all right now. Here's how I look at it: Some at this firm took the time to read my resume and consider me. It means so much to me that someone would actually consider hiring me even though I'm only 22 years old and I don't have too much life experience or amazing skills and talents. I mean, it's an honor just to be given a chance to be taken seriously as a professional working adult.
This particular job door isn't permanently closed. There's always a slim chance that they might still consider me if they can't fill the position by the time May rolls around. I told them I'd still love to work with them if that was ever the case. And, I also got to make a new contact in the legal services field. Good ol' networking... I didn't lose anything today. If anything, I gained something. Being told no, is sometimes more like being told yes. I was shown that YES, I can get a job. Today just wasn't the right timing. BUT it will happen at another time. YES, I am qualified enough. YES, really important people do in fact read my resumes.
At this moment, I realize there are still so many other opportunities for me. There's a reason I've applied to so many places. I'm open-mined and ready to consider alternatives and make the very best out of anything. I know the important thing to remember is to never lose hope. I will get a job soon enough and I'll be able to grow even more. In the meantime, all I can do is work as hard as I can and never give up. It will pay off.
XOXO
Chloe
08 February, 2017
#1 School/Study Tip
Hello again, everyone!
It seems like one of the most popular topics on my blog is school/study tips. I shamelessly admit that I am a nerd. People who meet me generally assume I am very laid-back and happy-go-lucky about schoolwork. They sometimes assume school comes very naturally and easily for me, but the truth is, I have to push myself to work extra hard. My grades are very important to me, even if I act like I goof off a lot or seem carefree. As a senior at university, I think it's safe to say I've collected my fair share of study tips. Most of my tips are pretty well known. (visit professors during office hours, actively participate in class, go to tutoring sessions, learn how to take notes efficiently, etc.) But today I just wanted to remind you of one of the most important tips.
Here it is: TAKE TIME TO BREATHE!
Let me confess that I am terrible at this. Lately, I feel like I've been running around, rushing off to meetings, extracurriculars, squeezing in time for studying and homework, and also balancing a healthy social life with friends and classmates. My to-do list never ends and I often feel the need to get everything done right away and will not rest until everything is finished. The other evening, I made myself a cup of camomile tea and sat down. I took a moment to close my eyes and feel myself breathing. I don't really know what prompted me to do this, but I guess I just feel a nudge from my mind to do it.
It's so easy to ignore what our bodies and minds our telling us. Clearly my body and mind needed a few seconds of stillness and silence, but I couldn't figure that out until I just say down and stopped letting distractions get to me. We all have work that needs to get done, but if we don't prioritize our mental and physical health, what's the point of scrambling around like crazy? Listen to your mind. It's so crucial that we learn how to tune into our inner life.
College is extremely difficult and stressful if you want to do well. Success means working hard and keeping at it, but that doesn't mean you have to become a robot or shut down. I had a yoga instructor used to tell the class, "Check in with your breath. The breath is always there for us. Use your breath. It will carry you through."
The breath is always there for you. Use it. It will carry you through.
XOXO
Chloe
It seems like one of the most popular topics on my blog is school/study tips. I shamelessly admit that I am a nerd. People who meet me generally assume I am very laid-back and happy-go-lucky about schoolwork. They sometimes assume school comes very naturally and easily for me, but the truth is, I have to push myself to work extra hard. My grades are very important to me, even if I act like I goof off a lot or seem carefree. As a senior at university, I think it's safe to say I've collected my fair share of study tips. Most of my tips are pretty well known. (visit professors during office hours, actively participate in class, go to tutoring sessions, learn how to take notes efficiently, etc.) But today I just wanted to remind you of one of the most important tips.
Here it is: TAKE TIME TO BREATHE!
Let me confess that I am terrible at this. Lately, I feel like I've been running around, rushing off to meetings, extracurriculars, squeezing in time for studying and homework, and also balancing a healthy social life with friends and classmates. My to-do list never ends and I often feel the need to get everything done right away and will not rest until everything is finished. The other evening, I made myself a cup of camomile tea and sat down. I took a moment to close my eyes and feel myself breathing. I don't really know what prompted me to do this, but I guess I just feel a nudge from my mind to do it.
It's so easy to ignore what our bodies and minds our telling us. Clearly my body and mind needed a few seconds of stillness and silence, but I couldn't figure that out until I just say down and stopped letting distractions get to me. We all have work that needs to get done, but if we don't prioritize our mental and physical health, what's the point of scrambling around like crazy? Listen to your mind. It's so crucial that we learn how to tune into our inner life.
College is extremely difficult and stressful if you want to do well. Success means working hard and keeping at it, but that doesn't mean you have to become a robot or shut down. I had a yoga instructor used to tell the class, "Check in with your breath. The breath is always there for us. Use your breath. It will carry you through."
The breath is always there for you. Use it. It will carry you through.
XOXO
Chloe
23 January, 2017
Small Victories
Hi again, everyone! Well, I have officially begun my last semester of college! (Ahhh! It's so crazy and hard to believe!) I may be MIA a lot more just because my schedule is super hectic and jammed packed. I'm determined to finish strong and I know I will somehow make it through another tough semester.
As some of you may know, I recently underwent shoulder surgery. Recovery has been going very smoothly thus far and I'm keeping my fingers crossed as healing continues. I'm still very restricted in what I am allowed and not allowed to do. The doctor is very cautious and wants me to stay away from too much movement just in case something not-so-awesome happens.
The other day, I managed to pull my hair into a loose and low ponytail. It took a lot of attempts and in the end it was far from perfect, but I was able to do it. It took me four weeks to be able to lift my arm high enough to do a low ponytail and there was something so neat about finally being able to do what would otherwise seem as a super easy task.
Surgery is tough. However, I realized just how much I take advantage of the days I am feeling well. I would have never ever thought a ponytail would become a huge reason to celebrate. During the recovery/healing process, it's really easy to only focus on what you can't do. The limitations often feel so disheartening and there are points where you can feel so frustrated. I think that ponytail represents so much more than just a hairstyle. It reminded me that it's so important to celebrate the tiny victories that happen along the way. Sure, my shoulder doesn't feel 100% amazing and I still can't do certain tasks, but I can do a low ponytail and I'm still able to get around.
Life is never as terrible as it may seem. I'm not saying ignore your feelings and emotions. They are very crucial elements of who you are and they're worth paying attention to. But I just want to challenge you all (and myself) to find ways to notice those small victories that happen every single day. Even if it's as simple as a ponytail...
XOXO
Chloe
As some of you may know, I recently underwent shoulder surgery. Recovery has been going very smoothly thus far and I'm keeping my fingers crossed as healing continues. I'm still very restricted in what I am allowed and not allowed to do. The doctor is very cautious and wants me to stay away from too much movement just in case something not-so-awesome happens.
The other day, I managed to pull my hair into a loose and low ponytail. It took a lot of attempts and in the end it was far from perfect, but I was able to do it. It took me four weeks to be able to lift my arm high enough to do a low ponytail and there was something so neat about finally being able to do what would otherwise seem as a super easy task.
Surgery is tough. However, I realized just how much I take advantage of the days I am feeling well. I would have never ever thought a ponytail would become a huge reason to celebrate. During the recovery/healing process, it's really easy to only focus on what you can't do. The limitations often feel so disheartening and there are points where you can feel so frustrated. I think that ponytail represents so much more than just a hairstyle. It reminded me that it's so important to celebrate the tiny victories that happen along the way. Sure, my shoulder doesn't feel 100% amazing and I still can't do certain tasks, but I can do a low ponytail and I'm still able to get around.
Life is never as terrible as it may seem. I'm not saying ignore your feelings and emotions. They are very crucial elements of who you are and they're worth paying attention to. But I just want to challenge you all (and myself) to find ways to notice those small victories that happen every single day. Even if it's as simple as a ponytail...
XOXO
Chloe
10 January, 2017
New Year Challenge
Hello everyone! Happy new year! I hope your holiday celebrations were full of fun memories with your loved ones. I apologize for not posting in a while. If you've recently visited my other blog, Chloe's Closet, then you've heard I've had a very busy semester and also had shoulder surgery. Rest assured, I am completely fine and I'm doing very well now.
While a lot of great things happened in 2016, I could not be more excited to put last year behind me and welcome 2017 with wide open arms. I am ready to make more positive changes in my life and i hope you are too. I want 2017 to be the year I am known by others for being compassionate, enthusiastic, and adventurous. If you also share this same goal with me, here are some ideas for how to accomplish them.
-Listen carefully to others. Sometimes we often listen to others so we can think of how to respond to what they just said. I find that this can often hurt others more than it can help. Sometimes our friends just want to vent to us. They don't always need problem solvers or people to debate with. We all need people who just sit there and let us express their honest feelings and also feel safe doing so. It's not always about what we think or what we want to say. It's often better to be quiet and give other people a chance to share their thoughts and words with us.
-Do a favor for someone and be encouraging. You know that co-worker, classmate, friend who seems frazzled, anxious, or overworked? They're going through a lot. Sometimes they don't always vocalize that they need help, so offer whatever resources you have. Maybe run an errand for them if you have extra time on your hands or buy them a cup of coffee. It doesn't have to be a big thing. You can even just take them aside to give them some encouragement and support. Never underestimate how much "You're doing a really great job" or "I really appreciate you" means to them.
-Create a zone for positive words and thoughts. It's easy to let the stress of work and/or school to drown out good vibes. While others complain, learn how to compliment. Offer something nice to say. Find something good about each situation, and share that with others. If you feel that your surroundings are negative, you can change that. Once you start being positive, you never know how quickly others will join you.
-Get out of your comfort zone. If you have a certain fear or phobia, challenge yourself to overcome it. As of right now, I have a fear of bees. I hate the idea of getting stung. However, I realize that bees are actually pretty cool. (Who doesn't like honey? And they help gardens look pretty.) Open yourself to new opportunities even if you feel unsure. As a kid, I went to summer camp without knowing a single person before signing up. I didn't ask my friends to join me. I just went solo. If I didn't do that, I would have never been as willing to make new friends and share my camp adventures with them. I was a pretty shy and quiet kid, but I learned how to become more outgoing and relaxed about social situations. If you let your fears dictate how you live, you will miss out on a lot of amazing moments. Go on that crazy trip, say yes instead of no, go ask that person on a date even if you think they'll say no. Put yourself out there and be brave. It will be worth it. I promise.
Again, happy new year! I hope this year is filled with lots of joy and peace. You are going to do some amazing things this year!
XOXO
Chloe
While a lot of great things happened in 2016, I could not be more excited to put last year behind me and welcome 2017 with wide open arms. I am ready to make more positive changes in my life and i hope you are too. I want 2017 to be the year I am known by others for being compassionate, enthusiastic, and adventurous. If you also share this same goal with me, here are some ideas for how to accomplish them.
-Listen carefully to others. Sometimes we often listen to others so we can think of how to respond to what they just said. I find that this can often hurt others more than it can help. Sometimes our friends just want to vent to us. They don't always need problem solvers or people to debate with. We all need people who just sit there and let us express their honest feelings and also feel safe doing so. It's not always about what we think or what we want to say. It's often better to be quiet and give other people a chance to share their thoughts and words with us.
-Do a favor for someone and be encouraging. You know that co-worker, classmate, friend who seems frazzled, anxious, or overworked? They're going through a lot. Sometimes they don't always vocalize that they need help, so offer whatever resources you have. Maybe run an errand for them if you have extra time on your hands or buy them a cup of coffee. It doesn't have to be a big thing. You can even just take them aside to give them some encouragement and support. Never underestimate how much "You're doing a really great job" or "I really appreciate you" means to them.
-Create a zone for positive words and thoughts. It's easy to let the stress of work and/or school to drown out good vibes. While others complain, learn how to compliment. Offer something nice to say. Find something good about each situation, and share that with others. If you feel that your surroundings are negative, you can change that. Once you start being positive, you never know how quickly others will join you.
-Get out of your comfort zone. If you have a certain fear or phobia, challenge yourself to overcome it. As of right now, I have a fear of bees. I hate the idea of getting stung. However, I realize that bees are actually pretty cool. (Who doesn't like honey? And they help gardens look pretty.) Open yourself to new opportunities even if you feel unsure. As a kid, I went to summer camp without knowing a single person before signing up. I didn't ask my friends to join me. I just went solo. If I didn't do that, I would have never been as willing to make new friends and share my camp adventures with them. I was a pretty shy and quiet kid, but I learned how to become more outgoing and relaxed about social situations. If you let your fears dictate how you live, you will miss out on a lot of amazing moments. Go on that crazy trip, say yes instead of no, go ask that person on a date even if you think they'll say no. Put yourself out there and be brave. It will be worth it. I promise.
Again, happy new year! I hope this year is filled with lots of joy and peace. You are going to do some amazing things this year!
XOXO
Chloe
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