Waiting in the Midst of Discomfort

Hello again! (I know TWO posts in 1 week is CRAZINESS!)
This post is sort of related to my previous post. As I was re-reading that post, I was reminded of the word Advent and what it really means.

I'm currently doing an Advent devotional called Waiting Here for You, An Advent Journey of Hope by Louie Giglio. I'm only two days in, but so far I am really enjoying it. The word "Advent" means expectation. In the Christian tradition, Advent is the time to reflect on the beautiful event of Christ's birth. It's a time to be calm instead of letting the chaos of everyday life and the holiday season distract us from showing kindness, love, and joy to people around us.

So how does this concept of "Advent" relate to real, everyday life? For many of us, (myself definitely included) we are in a season of transitions and "in-betweeness" (Is that even a word?) For me, I am a senior in college. For my fellow college students and/or recent grads, I'm sure you know how much weight that last sentence carries. People who know me know that I love agendas and plans. I love predictability and order. The realization that I don't know how the next few months/year drives me crazy. Therefore, I just want this part of my life to be over already. Another thing about me is I also hate waiting. Lately, I've been reflecting on how I can make the most out of waiting. How can I see the positive/bright side to this?

The thing about waiting is it isn't always going to be super easy and comfortable. It's often scary and frustrating. As difficult as this process can be, we can all have hope that this too shall pass and we are not alone in our struggles. Everyone has gone through this phase before. It can painful at times but in the end, it makes us stronger and more resilient. For me, it's like when I work out. It's uncomfortable to push beyond pain and fatigue. It feels like everything would be better if I just quit. But does quitting make me stronger? No! I feel much better once I complete a workout and know I did my very best and finished despite the pain. It's no different in other aspects of life. Just keep telling yourself "This too shall pass." Just because you feel overwhelmed, it doesn't mean the world is ending. Have faith and hope that you will become a better person with more wisdom after this awkward period of transition and waiting is over.  You are strong. You are brave. You can and you will get through this.

XOXO
Chloe